Anyone who knows me knows, I love quotes. I’m utterly unashamed
in basking in other peoples’ wisdom, and this post subject will have a regular spot on
my blog. I am so bad a logging into my Tumblr account, but it is wonderful for
finding new quotes you may not have come across before; so I have listed some
below – some are from Tumblr, some from books, and some from various other
places.
These resonate with me for various reasons, but in truth, I
think we can all relate to a good quote. I’ve hash-tagged each one in regards
to subject matter….
“Life will break you.
Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won’t either, for solitude
will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It
is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are
here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed,
or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen
to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness. Tell
yourself you tasted as many as you could.”
- Louise
Erdrich, The Painted Drum LP #Love
“I want
my heart
and my
passions to
be the
most beautiful
things about
me.”
“Suppose a man makes
unwanted social advances to a woman in, let’s say, a restaurant or theatre, and
she eventually has to tell him loudly or angrily to get lost. She is the one
who will be perceived as rude, hostile, aggressive, and obnoxious. His verbal
aggression and invasiveness are accepted and expected; her rudeness (or mere
curtness) in getting rid of him is noticed and condemned. One of our great
myths is that a “real lady” can and should handle any difficulty, defuse any
assault, without ever raising her voice or losing her manners. Female rudeness
or violence in resistance to male aggression has often been taken to prove that
the woman was not a lady in the first place, and therefore deserved no respect
from the aggressor or sympathy from others.”
“The fact that you’re
struggling doesn’t make you a burden. It doesn’t make you unloveable or
undesirable or undeserving of care. It doesn’t make you too much or too sensitive
or too needy. It makes you human. Everyone struggles. Everyone has a difficult
time coping, and at times, we all fall apart. During these times, we aren’t
always easy to be around — and that’s okay. No one is easy to be around one
hundred percent of the time. Yes, you may sometimes be unpleasant or difficult.
And yes, you may sometimes do or say things that make the people around you
feel helpless or sad. But those things aren’t all of who you are and they
certainly don’t discount your worth as a human being. The truth is that you can
be struggling and still be loved. You can be difficult and still be cared for.
You can be less than perfect, and still be deserving of compassion and
kindness.”
“I decided on you, don’t you get that? I decided on you. I don’t want to go fucking other people and then walk around feeling thrilled and then sad, or empty, or whatever. I like the smell of your hair, and I like the sound of your voice, and I fucking decided on you.”
- She got tired of waiting
- You blamed her, ignored her, disrespected her, played in her
insecurities and made her feel second best
- You gave your ex more attention than you gave her
- You didn't make her feel like the only one....like the best,
most beautiful, perfect girl
- You have no idea how much she cares
- You didn't give her a reason to stay
- You only wanted one thing from her, and it wasn't her heart
- You only gave her attention and affection when it was
convenient for you
- You were busy taking care of other peoples' girlfriends and
not her
- She got tired of waiting for you to care
- She didn't leave you. She's still here. You're just dumb!”
“The danger is that we’ll soon stop feeling outraged over the
erosion of trust.”
“If you wait to do everything until you’re sure it’s right,
you’ll probably never do much of anything!”
“You can’t break the rules, not even when it seems like everyone
else is doing it. Because if you do – if we all do – then the world becomes a
very scar place….the best thing is what you think should be done. The right thing is what needs to be done – when you
think not just of you an how you feel, but also who else is involved.”
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